Monday, October 13, 2014

She is Here!!!

Little Miss finally came a whole TWO weeks after her due date!! We are so ecstatic to have her here and we are all madly in love with this little sweetie pie!

But let's back up a bit shall we...

I was not surprised in the least to go over my due date. Each one of my kids have been late and all of them have had induction dates, but eventually they all came out before their "eviction notice" went into effect. I had what I hoped would be my last prenatal appointment on Tuesday, September 23rd. I was 2 cm dilated, 75% effaced, and her head was VERY low. I had them do a membrane sweep as this had put me into labor within 24 hours with both Landon and Nolan. I went home feeling crampy and a few hours later the contractions started. I really thought it would be happening that night so I got my bags packed, said goodnight and goodbye to the kids that night and explained I probably wouldn't be around in the morning because I would be having a baby! I even called our babysitter to give her a heads up that it looked like we would be needing her at some point during the night. Then after about 3 hours of pretty steady contractions, they petered out and went away. I was a bit frustrated. I had never had false labor before...contractions for me in the past always meant it was baby time, but not this time!! I had a few more nights during that week of contractions that would last a few hours and then fade away. This girl was really being stubborn about coming out!!

I had my next prenatal appointment on Tuesday, September 30th and since I was in my 41st weeks of pregnancy by that point, I had to have an NST and an ultrasound to verify that both baby and I were doing well (we were, thankfully!) Since it looked like my September baby would actually now be an October one, I discusses with my midwife Nicole what my options were. Basically I had two options...1. Schedule an induction for Friday morning when my favorite midwife Donna would be on call or 2. Come in on Friday for another NST and ultrasound and wait it out until Monday which would be the latest they would allow me to go. I really had no desire to go through another 3-hour appointment on Friday and wait through another weekend, so Jason and I decided together that a Friday induction date would be best. I really thought I would set the date and then this little girl would come on her own just like all the others, but she had a little mind of her own!!

On Friday morning, we dropped off Nolan at our neighbor's hours, dropped off Abby and Landon at the bus stop and then headed to the hospital. I had a lot of tears on the way...I kind of felt like an impostor going to the hospital to have a baby when I wasn't in labor!! Plus I was pretty scared of the whole induction process since that would all be new to me. We registered at the front desk and then headed back to our room. I always get a bit antsy once I am inside that labor and delivery room because I know I won't be able to leave until I push a baby out, always a bit daunting in my opinion!!

My midwife came in at 9:30 and we discussed the course of action for the day. I explained I wanted to hold off on Pitocin for as long as possible, so we decided to do the gel on the cervix to hopefully get things going on their own. If that didn't work, they would try breaking my water and then Pitocin would be the last option we tried. Right at 10:00 a.m. they checked my cervix (3 cm at that point) and then inserted the gel. I had some intense cramping as soon as they inserted the gel, which they said was a really good sign. About 30 minutes after the gel was inserted, the contractions started for good and came pretty regularly from there on out (about every 2-3 minutes.) The worst part was that I had to lie in bed for 90 minutes with the gel so that it could do it's work on the cervix. Laboring while lying down is not my favorite and I was so relieved when they finally let me out of bed. I spent the next hour walking around the room and leaning on Jason when the contractions came. Around 12:30 p.m. that became too much so I sat in the rocking chair and labored there for another hour. I need complete silence while I labor (no TV, no music, no talking) because I really go inside myself, urging myself on as I try to stay on top of and breathe through each contraction. At about 1:30 the contractions started coming closer together and were getting pretty rough. I was also starting to feel some pressure so I stood up to get back in the bed and felt my water break (that was the pressure I was feeling.) The midwife came back in to check me at that point and I was 7 cm dilated but the head was right there. She knew things were going to go pretty fast from that point on so she stayed in the room with me and let me labor how I saw fit (which is why I really like her!) I knew I was hitting transition at this point, my body was shaking and the contractions were incredibly intense. I remember asking Jason to "help me" at several points during this time, although I had no idea what he could do for me! After three natural deliveries, I realize that when you reach the point where you really don't think you can do it any longer, you are almost done. Then just 40 minutes after my water broke, I felt like it was time to push. I still had a bit of cervix in the way but I was able to push it out of the way and finally dilated to a 10 just minutes before our little girl was born. The pushing was REALLY intense as she was turned slightly and kept sliding back in, but finally at 2:18 p.m. our little girl was finally out and the immense relief that it was over came flooding over me!! Childbirth is no joke, but seeing her for the first time truly made it all worth it! I was so thankful that even though I had to be induced, I never had to be on Pitocin (I didn't even have an IV!) and was able to have the natural delivery that I had wanted. The fact that it only lasted 4 hours from start to finish was also a HUGE blessing!!

There was meconium in the fluid when my water broke so they immediately passed her off to a neonatologist to suction her out and make sure she was okay (all of my kids have had this so I wasn't too surprised but still missed having her brought immediately to me first!) 

After getting weighed and measured (8 lbs 12 oz, 22 inches)...

And wiped off a bit...

I finally got to hold my little baby girl for the first time. I was already so in love!!

Daddy was pretty enamored with her too!!


I mean look at that adorable little face with those squishy little cheeks!!



After a few hours of bonding time with just Mom and Dad, Jason left to go pick up the kids so they could meet their new baby sister!!

Abby was so excited to finally have another girl in the family...

Landon decided right away that having another sister was actually pretty great!!


And Nolan is a great big brother and loves giving her hugs and kisses all the time!!


Welcome to the world 

Miss Maylie Elizabeth Call!! 


We are so excited to now be a family of SIX!!

4 comments:

Melissa said...

Congrats to you guys Dadra! She is adorable. Glad she got here safe and sound. :)

Rachel B. said...

That face! So perfectly round and ADORABLE! Huge congrats that everything went so well. Can't believe you made it to 42 weeks!

Steph Thomas said...

I have ALWAYS thought that this is the perfect family. Family of six with two boys and to girls. I am a little jealous because I want that so bad I probably won't get it. I don't think I would be able to go through labor. I don't think I would be tough enough to push a baby out, I guess that is why I have had c-sections, Heavenly Father knew I couldn't cut it, especially natural. I think you are crazy for doing it natural but you are a better women then I. Crazy that you are overdue all the time. I am sure you are all excited to have another girl in the family. It just makes it complete. Congratulations!!!!

Steph Thomas said...

The pictures of just the baby, she looks huge but then when you guys are holding her she seems so small. It is funny how that works.